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There is a willy wagtail that comes to our house every morning, right on dawn. He can see himself in the tinted doors of our bedroom, and so jumps up and bangs on the door, over and over again, for hours at a time. Obviously, this is incredibly disturbing as it means we toss and turn in bed, wishing the bird would stop and go away and let us go back to sleep.
At one point, we covered the whole of our glass door with newspaper. It looked ugly, it flapped in the wind, it yellowed and tore at the edges, but it stopped the bird. We left it there until it hung in tatters and then we pulled it down. Peace continued for some time, until the bird found that the paper was gone and he could once again continue his obsessive banging on our door.
So we lie in bed, frustrated and angry, wishing the bird would disappear. As I am an animal communicator, I’ve tried communicating with the bird to ask him to please stop and let us sleep. On occassion, this has worked. I have asked angels to take him away, I have surrounded our house in protective white light, and created energetic barriers to stop him, but all to no avail.
This morning, I woke up just before dawn, anticipating his arrival. I went through my usual communication strategies and the bird kept banging. Just as I was seething with anger, I realised that I’d had it all wrong. We needed to turn the situation around. Instead of pushing him away, what we should have been doing all along was to extend and invitation to the animal and ask the bird, “What message are you bringing us?”
So I asked the bird, and received a stream of clear communication.
“The message is about living in harmony with those in our lives that irritate us. You can block them out, but they are still there, and it takes energy to maintain the block. The moment you divert your energy from maintaining the block, the moment they will be back because the reasons they irritate us are still there.”
I knew immediately that this message was clearly about someone in our family, who has a very difficult relationship with their family members, to the point of needing to block emails and refuse to take phone calls.
That’s all well and good, I said, but it doesn’t mean that they should have a relationship with their family as it is a toxic relationship and therefore a damaging relationship. How do they protect themselves if they can’t set boundaries?
The message continued. “Boundaries are necessary. But it’s not about blocking the people out of their life, it’s about releasing them so that they are no longer hooked into their energy and cycle of negative emotions. Let them go on their way with love.”
What a profound message! Thank you willy wagtail. I am now going outside to once more set a boundary by taping newspaper to our door, but I also take with me this wonderful wisdom, and I release the willy wagtail with love to go about his positive business as he should, foraging, nest building and making a family.